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Love is in the air here at Celtx as we introduce the next part in our Mastering the Art of Screenwriting series. Today it’s all about the romantic comedy or ‘rom com,’ a long-time staple of film and television that has captivated audiences with its blend of humor and heart.
Whether you’re a writer with a cupid-ly brilliant idea or a fan wanting to dive into the magic behind these feel-good stories, then you’ve certainly come to the right place! In this blog, we’ll walk you through the essentials of crafting a rom com screenplay that’ll make audiences laugh – and maybe cry!
Fancy diving further into the history of rom coms? Check out this awesome Glamour magazine article for all the gossip!
What Makes a Great Rom-Com?
A romantic comedy is, at its core, the perfect balance of comedy and romance. Though these are two contrasting genres, when done well, together they create both a heartwarming and hilarious viewing experience.
There are multiple ingredients to concocting a funny yet heartening rom com. While it’s important for us to experiment as screenwriters, by ensuring that these elements are present in our rom com scripts, the audience will easily recognize the genre.
A Perfect Blend of Comedy and Romance
In a romantic comedy, the comedy often derives from the characters’ quirks, misunderstandings, and the awkward situations they find themselves in. The romance comes from the development of the relationship between the two main characters.
A great rom com weaves comedy and romance seamlessly, with moment of tension and release, laughter, and a warm connection with the audience.
Well, this is all well and good, but how do you strike the right balance? It’s all about the comedy not undermining the romantic plot. While the characters may engage in comical situations or dialogue, these moments should bring them closer and add emotional depth to their journey.
Remember, the humor in rom coms isn’t just for laughs but is an essential part of the romance.
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Core Tropes
As with all genres, romantic comedies have their own set of signature topes. When done right, they can be made to feel fresh and satisfying to view. Here are a few of those tropes that are just dying to be adapted.
The Meet-Cute
Also known as the ‘memorable meeting,’ the meet-cute is a quirky and sometimes serendipitous moment when two characters cross paths for the very first time. This moment could be as simple as bumping into each other on the street or one accidentally spilling coffee over the other.
Here is where we see the initial spark between the characters and the first hints at the potential for romance.
Take this early scene from When Harry Met Sally (1989). Here we see Harry and Sally meet during a car ride from Chicago to New York, a meeting that is the furthest from romantic you could possibly get. Take a look at the clip:
It’s clear that Harry’s skeptical and condescending nature and Sally’s opinionated one completely clash to start with, however it’s the spark of awkward charm between them that we the audience realize the potential for romance which later blossoms.
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Opposites Attract
A firm favorite in rom coms, opposites attract is the idea that two people who are vastly different from one another, either in personality, background, or lifestyle, inevitably fall for each other.
The characters could start off as enemies or rivals, soon discovering that their differences actually complement each other in the most unexpected of ways.
The Proposal (2009) is the perfect example of opposites attract with no-nonsense publishing executive Margaret slowly falling for her easy going and slightly nerdy assistant, Andrew. These are classic opposites with their contrasting personalities leading to both comedic conflict and romantic chemistry which ultimately proves they’re perfect for one another.
In this clip we see Margaret’s cutthroat business manner, with Andrew’s more chilled out almost awkward approach as employee Bob is told he’s fired.
Miscommunication
Miscommunication is another classic trope in rom com. This tends to fuel most of the tension as characters often misunderstand each other’s intentions or don’t express their feelings clearly.
This trope often leads to comical but emotionally charged moments ranging from a simple case of mistaken identity to more complex misunderstandings that drive the plot forward.
In You’ve Got Mail (1998), the entire romantic arc hingers on miscommunication. Through Kathleen and Joe developing an anonymous relationship via email, they share the most personal of thoughts and details without knowing the other is a direct enemy of the other. Joe is a corporate rival to Kathleen’s small bookstore.
This single missed detail is the unravelling of the entire plot once its revealed, with the audience aware of it the entire time, creating tension and comedic moments aplenty.
In this clip we see Kathleen and Joe discuss what could have been following the fall out of finding out who each other really are.
Developing Chemistry Between Characters
The connection between the love interest is at the heart of the story. Without it, the audience won’t believe in the romance.
Now we’ve met a few of rom com’s most beloved characters, let’s explore how we can write our own, ensuring their relationships are believable and their chemistry is electric.
Writing Believable Relationships
To make the relationship between the leads believable, their interactions need to feel grounded in real emotion. The best rom coms take time to build the relationship, showing how the characters grow together through their comedic and emotional struggles.
In Legally Blonde, the relationship between Elle and Warner evolves slowly. While Elle starts out trying to win Warner back, her personal growth and pursuit of her own goals turns out to redefine their relationship, showcasing a love story built on mutual respect and individual growth.
For another great example we’ll return to When Harry Met Sally. The evolution of the leads’ relationship is subtle but profound. What starts out as a casual friendship filled with debate and banter, eventually turns into something much deeper.
The characters’ different perspectives fuel their interactions, but it’s their shared vulnerabilities and growing affection that eventually secure the bond between them.
Conflict Must be Earned
It’s important to remember that the conflict in a rom com should stem from the characters’ personalities, goals or misunderstandings.
Conflict should also challenge their relationship but also provide opportunities for growth, leading to an overall satisfying resolution.
Let’s take Bridget Jones’ Diary where Bridget faces internal and external conflict arising from her insecurities and romantic entanglements. It’s these feelings of self-doubt layered with constant miscommunication that lands her in comedic situations with Mark Darcy and Daniel Cleaver. This is demonstrated in the scene where Bridget discovers Daniel has been cheating on her following an embarrassing ordeal at a family party.
As Bridget begins learning to embrace her imperfections, she begins to trust in herself and her decisions, ending the movie in the arms of Mark Darcy. Her eventual choice is satisfying to us as an audience as it resolves her inner conflict of self-acceptance, rather than Mark just winning the rivalry contest.
Comedy Timing and Writing Romantic Humor
Once we’ve crafted characters that resonate with our audience, it’s time to master the art of comedy timing. Both comedy and romance rely on this, so we need to consider how long we let a joke sit for, when to deliver a punchline, and when to hold back.
In rom coms, this timing is even more important as we’re balancing humor with sincerity. Comedy in a rom com is often at its best when it highlights a character’s vulnerabilities or awkwardness. This shows their humanity and so much serve the larger emotional arc of the script.
If a scene is too comedic, it could undermine the emotional weight of the romance, while one that is too serious could feel tonally wrong.
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The writing in 10 Things I Hate About You expertly balances humor with sincerity. Kat and Patrick’s sharp, witty banter creates tension but also reveals their insecurities and growing feelings for one another.
The humor makes the romance light and playful while the emotional moments remind us that these characters are more than just funny one-liners and are developing a deep connection. Even from their first meeting shown in the clip below, we see their quick-fire exchange, the subtext of their words revealing their characters.
As you can see, much of the chemistry between Kat and Patrick comes from their back-and-forth exchanges. They challenge and tease each other while showing glimpses of vulnerability that make us root for them.
Writing Love Scenes Without the Cringe
How many times have you watched a movie and thought it was ‘totally cringe’? Well, one of the trickiest aspects of writing a rom com is making the romantic moments meaningful without veering into cheesy territory.
Love scenes should feel authentic and not forced and should serve the emotional development of the characters rather than just fulfilling a narrative need. Remember, characters are at the center of our stories.
To make romantic moments meaningful, consider how each character expresses love. It could be through a quiet gesture, a heartfelt confession, or a shared moment of vulnerability. Avoid falling into the cliched trap of over-the-top gestures unless it fits the tone of your story.
Take Crazy Rich Asians. The grand gesture at the end of the film feels earned due to the emotional build up throughout the movie.
It’s not just about Nick impressing Rachel, but about showing vulnerability, sacrifice, and personal growth. While the final scene is a visual spectacle for the audience, it also rounds off the couple’s highly emotional journey.
Similarly, in The Holiday, Iris and Miles’ relationship builds organically. When Miles confesses his feelings for Iris, he doesn’t rely on grand gestures but on genuine emotion. He never outrightly says ‘I love you’ but we see the emotion in their actions and through their growing friendship.
As we can see from the scene, Miles isn’t trying to ‘win’ Iris but simply express his feelings, with Iris’ response a genuine one. She initially hesitates but realizes the connection they have is real and meaningful. Their reactions say it all!
It just goes to show we don’t need to rely on extravagant gestures or dramatic declarations to make a lasting impact on our audiences.
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Conclusion
Crafting a rom-com script is all about striking the perfect balance between humor and heart. By embracing key tropes like the meet-cute, opposites attract, and miscommunication, you can create engaging characters and moments that resonate with your audience.
Developing chemistry between your leads, mastering comedy timing, and writing love scenes that feel genuine are all vital to making your romantic comedy both entertaining and emotionally satisfying.
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Explore other genres with our Screenwriting Series:
- Part 1: Mastering the Art of Screenwriting
- Part 2: From Dreams to Screams: How to Write a Horror Script
- Part 3: From Dreams to Screams: How to Write a Horror Script, Part 2
- Part 4: Beyond the Stars: How to Write a Science Fiction Script
- Part 5: Laugh out Loud: How to Write a Comedy Script
- Part 6: From Tears to Triumphs: How to Write a Drama Script
- Part 8: Crafting Magic: How to Write a Holiday Movie Script
- Part 9: How to Write a Documentary Script: A Step-by-Step Guide
- Part 10: How to Write a Skit That Lands Every Time
- Part 11: How to Write a Romance Script that Sweeps Audiences Away
- Part 12: From Clues to Conclusions: How to Write a Mystery Script
- Part 13: From Song to Stage: How to Write a Musical Script
- Part 14: From Zero to Hero: How to Write an Action Movie Script
